Preview: This article provides strategies on how to protect yourself financially as a stay at home mom. Economic dependence is risky and making financial choices while raising kids is crucial. In a creaky rocking chair I cradled my six-week-old son. His white-blonde hair glowed from the July sun beaming into the windows of the apartment, […]
Best mom sayings that will simplify disciplining kids
Disciplining our kids effectively can be exhausting at times. We want to impart our values to our kids, but we sometimes fail due to sheer overwhelm or fatigue. Here are some of my best mom sayings to memorize to make your life with kids easier. I also explain why they work so well. Read on… […]
How to Get Over Mommy Guilt
The following is a transcript of an interview I recorded with Aviva Pflock and Devra Renner of Mommy Guilt. They join me to talk about their book Mommy Guilt: Learn To Worry Less, Focus On What Matters Most, And Raise Happier Kids. We discuss how guilt feelings are at an epic high in our time, and how […]
Well yesterday was… interesting
Never a dull moment around here. Studies show that parents of more than 4 children are happier than parents with fewer kids. Researchers speculate it’s because parents of large broods get accustomed to a level of chaos that would cripple other people. In other words, if I’m not in the ER, it’s a good day. […]
Josiah update: 7 months/4 months
Before & after
Us before: Us after:
What To Do When Your Friend Has a Preemie
Preview: If you’re wondering how to help, what to say, and what to do when your friend has a preemie, read on. I share tips on how to be truly helpful to your friend when she’s going through this difficult experience. Today is World Prematurity Day. It’s no accident that I’m just now, at 6 […]
Nursing a NICU Baby
(Note: Now that my youngest son, a former 27-weeker, is two and thriving, I’m publishing several posts today for World Prematurity Day. This one is about Nursing a NICU Baby.) One of the things I’m proudest of in my life is that my 2 year old is still breastfeeding. It was a difficult journey, to […]
One last time
(Note: This is one of many posts I wrote during my 27-weeker preemie’s NICU journey that never got published. Some of them felt too raw to share at the time. Now that my son is two and thriving, I’m going back and publishing these for World Prematurity Day. Several posts like this will go live […]
42 weeks pregnant: Ignore This Post
[Update 2016: I found this post in my drafts folder, never published. It’s now over four years old, like the baby. I was 42 weeks pregnant with baby #6 when I wrote this, and had never felt more (physically) miserable in my life. It’s funny how much of this I had forgotten. With my next […]